Using Sexual Energy in Our Daily Lives

By: Tatiana O'Per

We generally understand sexual energy as an emotional tension,
usually followed by a pleasant euphoric sensation when released.
But instead, imagine allowing this energy to spread throughout
your entire body and absorbing it energetically through all your
cells.

When you are having sex, do you analyze what you are doing while
in the middle of making love? Iâ?Tm sure you have answered no!
When children run around madly full of this vibrant pulsating
energy (that we experience as sex) it spreads through their
entire body and they express it as joy instead. Hence they have
not begun to interpret and analyze it with their mind. The child
doesnâ?Tt sit back and say, â?~Iâ?Tm tired now, I want to have a
restâ?T during their play, as we do when sexual tension is
released.

What we really have here is simply energy with only our own
labels added on. As soon as a person comes into maturity this
energy is polarized and sexual activity commences. It marks the
beginning of the aging process simply because we separate
ourselves from this wonderful joy - energy. When sexual energy
spreads throughout your body, it gives you that orgasmic
feeling. It energizes your body and prolongs enjoyment between
yourself and your partner.

Sexual energy is an emotion that you can activate to get the
full effect of energy. So are gratitude, love, appreciation, and
acknowledgement emotions. If having sex can be compared to the
lower notes upon the musical scale, then these other emotions
like gratitude, love, appreciation, acknowledgement etc., would
be the higher notes or chakras upon the scale. We all know how
important these emotions are and how we crave to feel them.
Imagine for a moment that if you cannot get these higher tender
emotions communicated, itâ?Ts natural to go for the most
commonly obtainable ones, the emotions you get from sex. (not
sure what youâ?Tre trying to say here)

Recent research has shown that when the coccyx is stimulated in
women who have never been able to orgasm, they easily begin to
do so and enjoy a wonderful sexual sensation. We can now reclaim
this energy by simply connecting to it using a simple exercise.
But how do you maintain this sort of connection on a conscious
level without actually having sex?

Exercise is one of the ways to energize your body using
emotions. But what if you could have all these other sensations
at any time instead of waiting for the only one you know you can
get from sex?

To hook up to your joy at will using emotions as a way to open
yourself to have more pleasurable all over sensations is like
playing more than one note upon the scale which enhances your
sexual experience as well.

One of these higher notes upon the emotional scale is gratitude.
We forget to be grateful for many things in our life and instead
focus on negative images. Another higher note is appreciation
such as having an engaging hobby or enjoying the company of a
special friend. Expressing to your partner what you value or
treasure about them and sincerely communicating through your
eyes along with taking the time to express your feelings will
increase the whole sexual level between both of you because of
how the other will receive your genuine expressions. This is
what stimulates all the notes upon the scale and the whole
sexual dynamic as you felt it long ago and is the key to this
exercise.

This is the whole reason sex was so much more exciting at the
beginning of our lives. We have just forgotten this priceless
gift because we took it for granted way back then. The
appreciation level is what ignites the body centers and is a
feeling experienced at the heart centre (chakra), the main
activator of energy. We are not consciously aware of this,
therefore we lose it later on and the whole partner search has
to happen all over again until we can learn how to do this on a
conscious level.

Sharing feelings openly enables us to feel more deeply and
experience a heart connection and loving relationship with
others. Love is a cohesive force that acts as a rejuvenator for
our whole system. It helps us maintain stronger health, gives
longevity and greater joy, as well as makes relaxation, a sense
of adventure and spontaneity more available in our daily lives.
Connecting to your love energy consciously gives the body a
re-charge, promotes deep inner healing and revives sexual
pleasure warmth and connection with your partner.

It also enhances your creativity, enthusiasm and drive and has a
positive effect on your self-esteem and confidence. It energizes
your organs and gives you a greater sense of vitality all over

Hence when we act whole heartedly, it brings our whole life
energy into greater focus enabling us to be more present to
everything that happens in our life making the sexual experience
better than ever before. It becomes a beginning to a whole new
way of experiencing lovemaking and takes your energy to a whole
new level as your personal wow factor!

THE ENERGY CONTROL TECHNIQUE acts like a switch that stimulates
your enthusiasm by boosting your own sexual energy. It can be
used in any area of your life. Health, career, relationships or
even improve your golf.

Itâ?Ts all about focus â?" whatever you focus your mind upon;
you will draw that into your lifeâ?¦...

HERE ARE - SOME EXAMPLES OF ENERGY CONTROL

An insurance guy will get you to focus upon your worst fear, you
buy into the fear game and he has sold you the insurance.

If you fear spiders letâ?Ts say, you will inadvertently focus on
them.

By focusing on what you want or donâ?Tt want you draw that very
thing to you in some â?~magicalâ?T way, whether itâ?Ts positive
or negative.

When ordering from the menu in a restaurant, you tell the waiter
what you want and you expect to get what you have ordered. You
donâ?Tt sit there wondering if he will bring you what you
donâ?Tt want, do you?

I usually demonstrate in a seminar how to use our internal
switch that stimulates our erroneous zones â?" similar to
foreplay. It involves 4 simple steps. This is one of the steps
you could try for yourself:

For ladies try massaging your nipples try not to go into the
whole sexual fantasy, remember you are doing this for a
different reason here. The reason is to feel how your body is
going to feel with this nice feeling that you are causing to
cascade throughout you own body. You can do this under a shower
for a bit or upon waking in the morning.

For guys start the self pleasuring process, and allow yourself
to feel how nice it feels, but with the object here to keep the
energy flowing, not to ejaculate. Remember you are not
masturbating.

When you succeed in recognizing that you are indeed feeling very
different from when you first started, try holding onto this
energy and taking this into your day. To learn how to do this
successfully, come to the seminar where you will learn how to
perfect this technique so it becomes a mood enhancer.

By acknowledging the divinity in one another we evoke that
presence in ourselves and the other. This is the heart of all
relationships - at a deeper level where lovers are equal
opposites of each another.

Tatiana ~ Tat Oâ?TPer Tatiana teaches people how to turn up
their internal power, enthusiasm and vitality by using their own
sexual energy like a switch. This method not only prolongs a guy
to go for as long as they want in the bedroom, but also works
equally well for healing your body and changing any life
situation. This amazing energy control method is called
The Orgasmic Effect. Seminars to train therapists will be
available by 2009. Meanwhile see how it can work for you at:
www.theorgasmiceffect.com.



About the author:
Tatiana teaches people how to turn up their internal power,
enthusiasm and vitality by using their own sexual energy like a
switch. This method works equally well for healing your body and
changing any life situation.